How to manage money. Simple steps to financial freedom.
How to manage money

How to manage money. Simple steps to financial freedom.

How to manage money is the beginning of all financial freedom. Not knowing how to manage money well will often if not inevitably lead to money worries and then money troubles.

difficulty many of us have is that we have not been effectively shown how to
manage money. We might have seen how our parents, friend’s or celebrities do it,
but that may or may not have been a good example.

Once we
have left home, we are at the mercy of advertising and social media to see how
we think or how we are told to manage our money to make us happy, i.e. spend of
much of it as we can.

It’s your money

This is
what many of us seem to forget. You earnt it; it’s your money.  In fact, what happens is that most of our
money quickly becomes someone else’s money. We immediately start throwing
around our money like confetti to the cable company, nights out, clothes and stuff.
Before too long we are gasping for air at the end of the month desperate for

If only you
could keep more of your money, the more chance, you would have of growing real
wealth and financial freedom.

Financial literacy and managing money

If you have
children, what sort of skills do you want to pass on to them? To be kind, to
eat with their mouth closed and or financial literacy?

Knowing how
to manage money will be a key life skill for you and a massive head start for
your children to learn how to do this the right way in the house where they
grow up.   

There are
many skills to learn for a fulfilled life, but how to manage money has got to
be up there. Having the skills and knowledge to manage money well will set you
and your children up for a bright future.

Of course,
the opposite of this, i.e. no knowledge how to manage money well will lead to
many financial difficulties and pain throughout life as you move from one
financial crisis to another. The classic case will be living paycheck to
paycheck. One payday away from disaster. That doesn’t sound like a good life.

How to manage money wisely

Right, let’s
start at the beginning. How much money do you have coming in? Do you know? You’d
be surprised by how many people don’t know how much they get paid.
Understanding your payslip, what’s the overall figure, being taken off, and
what you have left.

How much
money do you have? How much money do you owe? And what’s the difference. Ideally,
you have a positive figure at the end of it.

of what’s coming in and going out and what’s left overall is the key to understanding
what is going on with your money. There’s nothing like sunlight to disinfect
your finances and tell you what is going on rather than what you think is

There may
be pleasant or unpleasant money movements happening, but at least you can now
address them. That magazine subscription you no longer need, all those takeaways
eating away at your finances or that fun holiday that was worth every penny.

you can get apps, or some bank accounts can categorize and track your spending,
so you know what’s going on good, bad or ugly spending. I use Moneydashboard* (Affiliate link. Other Apps are available) which
helps give you a weekly update on spending and where it’s all going.

Budgeting and planning

How you
budget and plan is more of an art than a science but can depend on what you are
trying to achieve.

The main point
of a budget is to give each of your pounds/dollars/Yen a job to do. If they don’t
have a job to do, they will wander off and get lost if you like good coffee,
you setaside specific money for that use.

A budget is
to help you spend your money in the way you want to and not just to let money
slip through your fingers on undefined things.

Once you have your data where your money is going, you can either use that as a budget or begin to mould your spending more into how you want to send your money, i.e. start cutting down or out things you don’t need or want.

Moneydashboard (Affiliate link) has a budget format,
but you can of course just use a spreadsheet or just a piece of paper to figure
out needs, wants, debt repayment and savings.

The 50/30/20 rule of thumb

One classic budget is the 50/30/20. Spend 50% of your income on needs, 30% on wants (but you don’t have to spend this much) and 20% on saving and or paying off debt.

A slightly different version of this would be to spend only 50%, invest 30% and save 20% until you have 3-6 months cash for an emergency fund and then invest even more. This would be a potential wealth building budget as you would be investing and saving much more.

These budgets may or may not work for you. This depends on what you are trying to achieve. If you are trying to save more, then the savings component should be higher. If you are trying to make a major change in your finances, then the savings component will need to be much higher as you trim off the wants.

Those people in the FIRE (financial independence Retire Early) community look at savings rates of 50% plus. Obviously the more you earn, the easier it is to save more. But everyone can save a little more with a more focused approach to managing money considering what they really want.

Here’s a
great article on the power of saving rates on your early retirement. The shocking simple math’s of early

Financial planning steps

Having even
a basic financial plan in place could save you so much time, money and energy
in achieving your goals. You know that if you go on a long journey and you
already know the route it will be much faster than just guessing your way

What do you
want to achieve in life? When would you like to do it? Who do you want to achieve
it with? Want kids, how many and when? Want to travel, to where, when and in
what style?

Think of
all the things you would like to do in the next month, year, five years, ten
years and your lifetime. Do any of these have financial implications, i.e. they
will need money to achieve them.

Get a blank
sheet of A4 paper and break it up into time chunks like above or as you like
and set out what you want to do in those time slots. Then guestimate what it
might cost. The more accurate, the better, look online for what these things
night costs. But don’t get hung up on the accuracy just the ballpark figure.

You might
need to focus the list down to 3-5 of the most important things—the things you
will regret never doing.

Next, what
are the three next steps you could take to achieve them? These can even be tiny
steps, i.e. look inline, get a book or set up a bank account for whatever it
is. Just start taking steps towards them one action or £/$/€ at a time.

information of where you want to go can now be combined with your current
reality. What is your current net worth positive or negative? This might mean
you have a lot of work to do to get to where you want to, or it could be that you’re
not that far off a few goals already.

Now you
have the beginnings of a plan. You know where you are now and where you want to
go. It might change over time, and a least a yearly review will help update,
change or get rid of things you no longer wish to do. The difference is that
now you have a rough map to get there.


Debt is going to be a severe drag on how you achieve your
goals and become financially free.

You will often hear the phrase the good, the bad and the
ugly debt.

Good debt classified as debt that is purchasing some sort of
asset that should go up on value. A house, or maybe further education as it is
increasing your ability to earn.

Bad debt – things you have borrowed money on that lose value
straight away. As soon as you drive a car off the sales lot, it is losing value,
but you are still paying off what you paid for it. When you come to sell it,
you will get a lot less than you paid for it.

Ugly debt is associated with high-interest credit, store
cards, car lease payments. Things that you have bought that you will know spend
a lot of time and money paying off that added little value to your life. Things
that were vanity buys. A car, flash tv or clothes far above what you needed. These
are going to cost you heavily, what it will finally cost you in money but more
importantly the time it has used up to pay them off.

Some say that all debt is bad as it keeps you the slave of
someone else, i.e. you must keep working to pay someone else. So always
thinking carefully before taking on more or new debt will help you stay out of
this problem.

If you are going into debt, then always think about how much
it will cost to pay it off and what your plan will be to pay off over what

If you are having debt problems, Stepchange and the Money advice service can
provide free advice and guidance.

How to prevent financial crisis: Protect yourself.

At some point, the wheels are going to come off. It’s when
things go wrong and not if. To prevent mistakes, lousy fortune or serious
incidents wiping you and your family’s financial future out, you need to protect

Set up an emergency fund

This can take many forms, but the basic one is an emergency fund. Enough cash set aside to last you 3-6 months or more if you feel more vulnerable.

An emergency fund of 3-6 months expenses or larger should
help you ride out most financial shocks: a broken-down car, boiler gone bust or
a gap between employment.

The emergency fund should be kept in an easy-access account
and in cash as you may need to access it asap in an emergency. Figure out what
it costs you to live for a month and times it by 3 or 6 or more to get to your
emergency fund.

If you don’t have an emergency fund, there is no time like
the present to set one up. Start by setting up a standing order into a separate
account that can start building it up asap.

How much should you have in an emergency fund?

You will need to assess this for your own circumstances and
risk appetite. As suggested above, 3-6 months is often the quoted amount. But
this may not be enough if you think your job, sector or personal circumstances are

If you and your partner work in the same sector or employer if you have large, expensive debts or underlying health conditions that would mean finding a new income might be tricky.

If your reading this is March 2020, then you are
experiencing an almost complete shutdown of jobs and economic activity for most
people. All a sudden lots of peoples jobs have stopped dead, and the economy
appears to be grinding to a halt for how long who knows.

Having a safety net of 3-6 months or more expenses will make
any challenge like this a lot more bearable.

Life, critical illness and income protection insurance.

All or some of these types of insurance will also protect
you and your family if things start to go seriously wrong.

Life insurance is obviously more for those that are
left behind if you or a loved one dies. It’s not a pleasant subject to talk
over but leaving your family to spiral into poverty after you have gone is not
either.  Making sure that those that are
left behind can carry on as they were or even better will be an important
legacy to leave.

How much life insurance you want to get depends on your circumstances,
what you can afford, and what you want to give to those left behind. Things to
consider will be how will those left behind manage without you? Are there any significant
debts that you would like or need to get paid off like a mortgage. Do you need
to replace your lost salary for a set number of years, i.e. until your children
leave home?

Something to check does your current employer offer a death
in service life cover. This might pay out a multiple of your salary. You can
then see if this is enough or if you need to supplement this with your personal
life insurance.

Critical illness is for when you suffer from one or more listed critical illnesses. Common on the list are cancers and other life-changing illnesses. Payouts are usually lump sums helping you deal with any loss of income and if adaptations are needed to your house for the after-effects of the illness or injury.   

Not having to worry about money while you are critically ill
will give you great peace of mind. Helping you to concentrate on getter better.

Income protection kicks in when you can’t work anymore for a number of health-related injury or illnesses. These often payout a percentage of your income up to a designated amount of time. Again, worth checking if your employer offers anything like this when it kicks in, how much and for how long.

All these insurances
will cost depending on your current age, current and past health, family health
history and your lifestyle, including the type of work you do, i.e. is it
already dangerous.

These types
of insurances might be expensive but will give you massive peace of mind when they
come to the rescue. Until then they may be your best waste of money because you
hope they are a waste of money and don’t need to payout.

Retirement planning

Are you ever planning on not working or at least not working
for money in the future? Or would you like to work forever, i.e. die in your
work clothes?

What do you want your retirement
to look like, when, and how it happens? What does a good retirement look like,
and what might it cost? Are there things you have always wanted to do? Will you
want to support others in your family at this time?

And for a bit of stick, what does
a lousy retirement look like? Being poor in your old age may well not look very
pretty or comfortable. Do you want to be dependent on state aid?

Answering these types of questions
will help you get a picture of what a good retirement looks like. It will also
help identify some financial costs, i.e. what it costs to go on one or more cruises
a year or to be mortgage-free when you retire.

Saving and investing

The main differences here is the risk and reward involved
and the return of and on your money.

Saving money in a bank account is generally safe, depending
on the bank. However, it has usually also had a minimal reward. The reward likely
being interest earned on the cash. It’s been some time since interest rates on
cash were above low single figures. This means that you are getting a meagre
rate of return on your money, but you should get the return of your money, i.e.
if you put in £100 you should get £100 back when you come to withdraw but possibly
not much else.

When it comes to investing, you are expecting a higher rate
of return on your money and your money back. But here is where higher risk is
involved, i.e. you might get less money than you put in back depending on when
you want to access your money. As an example, if you wanted to access your
money right at the time of a financial crisis, you might find that the value of
your investments have gone down and this is a bad time to sell.

The types of investments you might include – shares,
property, businesses, websites etc. In general, things that earn you an income
and have a strong likelihood of going up in value over the longer term.

Property and mortgages

Buy the biggest house you can – or read get the biggest debt
you can and spend the rest of your life paying it off – not sure it sounds that
much fun.

Buying a house is likely to be your biggest purchase, so don’t
let it be your biggest mistake when it comes to money. Make sure you can afford
any mortgage with plenty of give in your finances, i.e. if your income reduced
you could still afford the mortgage for several months and not immediately into

Getting a smaller house that you “could” is going
to be a severe psychological barrier to overcome but a key to financial success.
I’m not sure who is impressed by your massive mortgage – is it helping you sleep
at night?

You also need to keep some cash aside for fittings and
furniture, and in case anything goes wrong, i.e. the boiler or house improvements.

When you get a mortgage offer, make sure you think about your future self still paying off the house well into your 60’s, 70’s or older!! Do you still want to be working to pay off the debt at that age?

Tax efficiency

There are legal ways in most countries to avoid overpaying
tax. In the UK these are predominantly through ISA’s (individual Savings Accounts)
and Pensions or SIPPS (Self Investment Personal Pension)

ISA’s allow you to put cash into them, either a cash account
or a stocks and shares version. Once inside any earnings are tax-free. So, you
won’t pay any tax on interest, dividends or growth of the value of the funds
while inside the ISA.

The advantage of an ISA is that you can put in (up to a certain
amount per tax year) and take out money anytime you like. The disadvantage is
that you can take out your money anytime you like so you might keep raiding it
for needs and wants rather than using it to build your wealth.

A personal or work pension is more restrictive as once you
put money in you cannot access it until 57 (although the age keeps getting
older). However, you will get tax advantages as often the government gives you
back a proportion of the tax you paid on the money when you earnt it. If its an
employer pension you will get the money paid into your pension tax-free and
then likely a contribution from your employer to boost the amount, i.e. free
money from your employer.

Fun money now

Making sure you have enough fun money for regular fun expenses
like birthdays, Christmas, yearly holidays etc. will also help keep you on the
straight and narrow. Otherwise, if these come as surprises every day, week
month year it will lead to multiple mini-crisis every time they come around.

Eating out is likely to be part of your fun money. Eat different
food adds a lot of colour to life so you can plan for this in your expenses. Or
you can learn to cook the type of food you like to save even more on the costs/

Scams and ongoing financial literacy

If it sounds too good to be true it probably …… is.

The challenge is that when you are new to something you
might not know what too good to be true loots like. Short cuts, massive profits,
huge rates of return in a short period of time should all be warning signs that
something may not be right.

When your motivated by greed or to get rich quick and believe that you can’t be fooled that’s when you are at your most vulnerable. The reason is that you will blinker yourself to see what you want to see and look for things that reinforce what you want to hear, i.e. confirmation bias.

Anything that sells skipping hard work and effort for a quick
solution is skating on thin ice. If you think you can get rich quick without
learning and experiencing hard work, then a lottery ticket is probably your
best bet as it shouldn’t cost you too much money. Anything like schemes charging
thousands for rapid progress to riches.

Read more, listen more and learn how to manage your money

The first time you hear about a concept like financial independence,
it might be completely new to it. But just like any other learning you have done
over time, it will become more and more familiar as you become more financially

Books– they are good for reading, there are countless
great financial books out there, reading at least once a year will massively
boost your financial literacy. You can get them for free at your local library,
second on eBay or Amazon or brand new everywhere. If you can’t be bothered to
do that you could get the author to read it to you through Audible.

Podcasts – there are now countless podcasts out there
talking about money in every single way. For men, for women, for families etc.

And of course, there is financial coaching. Where you can work with someone to help you think about and manage your money, plan out what you would like to achieve and then keep you accountable to those actions. A financial coach can help you save time, money and help prevent some of the more painful mistakes.  

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